Wednesday, February 13, 2013

Group-smoosh:



Tomorrow is Valentine's Day.

I don't know. That simple sentence is frought with such an intensity of feeling. There are people in love who know that tomorrow will be merely an overflow of the togetherness they already possess. There are guys freaking out because they have no idea what they're meant to do to make it special. There are people complaining about commercialism and greed and "just another excuse to try and sell greeting cards and chocolates". Then there are the waiting few, the scattered band of soloists who -- whether they regard Valentine's Day as a ridiculous first-world rort to make people spend money, or as a rich celebration of romance -- scuff their toes in the dust and wish for their duet to start.

To these few, these treasured superheroes of going it alone, I want to say something magical and wonderful and perfect. Only there isn't one thing that's magical and wonderful and perfect to be said, because to say it -- to try to say it -- would be to diminish how hard it can be sometimes to eke out life singly in a world that's made for pairs. There are many excellent things about travelling solo, and I hope that you experience all the best of them. But if the balance for you is weighing more heavily to the side of heartbreak than hallelujah, I want to smush you into a big group hug and let you know that you're not alone in being alone. And you're not ignored, either.

So, I wrote a thing. And it's messy and raw because love and lovelessness are messy and raw. But it's for people like you and me who might be waiting for something but don't ever have to wait for grace. SMOOSH.

17 comments:

  1. BE MY VALENTINE.

    Single sisterhood hugs to you! x

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  2. How is every word you write so good?

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  3. thank you. thank you. thank you.
    your words were so appreciated today!
    xx

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    1. Bless you, Abbie! I'm glad that those of us walking this road get to walk it together.

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  4. I actually came over here after reading your thing. Thank you. I'm feeling the grace today, but your words are such a fine-tuned reminder for when I'm not feeling it. Or frankly...even now that I am feeling it. Cupcakes and sprinkles to you!

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  5. I actually came over here after reading your thing. Thank you. I'm feeling the grace today, but your words are such a fine-tuned reminder for when I'm not feeling it. Or frankly...even now that I am feeling it. Cupcakes and sprinkles to you!

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    1. Thank you, JR! I'm rejoicing with you in that grace feeling -- and loving the cupcakes and sprinkles :D

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  6. I just need to tell you, Danielle, how much I love your writing. You have a real gift. This article was just as good as last year's, and I loved that one lots. :)

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    1. Thank you, Bethany! You are so lovely.

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  7. Thank you for your transparency. I love you.

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  8. I loved it! It echoed some of my heart thoughts very well. Only you have an amazing way with words and I don't ;-)

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    1. I disagree. You have a lovely way of expressing things!

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